The Official Rules of PersonalityCafe (which includes INFP Forum and forum for other personality types): http://personalitycafe.com/misc.php?do=showrules
The official rule that governs the forums in PersonalityCafe is quite a concise one. It reminds users tp hold responsibility for any content they had post on the forums, and if there is any objectionable message including “obscene, vulgar, sexually-oriented, hateful, threatening, or otherwise violative of any laws” information posted, it might be remove or edit by the owner of PersonalityCafe.
Negative Examples (and what I will do)
#1. A member posted a thread asking if anyone know anything about Immigration Laws because a friend of him/her got some visa problems. I tried to read the messages in this thread again and again but still could not find anything related to personality types in the discussions. However, one INFP member and one member with unknown personality replied to the post in very friendly tones, and it was neither closed nor moved to other forums. It does seems strange to me because 99% of the threads in this forum are discussing issues or topics related to INFP personality type, and since there is a “Cafe Lounge” area including “General Chat” forum and “Advice Center” forum in PersonalityCafe, moving this thread to either place will be more appropriate and will help the author get more useful answers. A suggestive report by any other users in this forum should be encouraged, and of course, a warmly message to the author explaining why the thread should be moved to other forums is indispensable as well. Maybe like what is mentioned in How Oversight Improves Member-Maintained Communities, “oversight increased both the quantity and quality of contribution while reducing antisocial behaviour, and peers were as effective at oversight as experts.” Though there are no antisocial behaviour involved in this case, a peer oversight seems to work more effective as well. Besides, my personal opinion will be even the author is an INFP type does not simply mean that all of his/her topics should be putted in this forum.
#2. The second example is one that made me feel insulted somehow. It initially started with a message encouraging the guys in this forum to discuss what is a “woman”. After 53 replies, the thread was closed. Apparently, some members thought that there was a sense of Sexism in some replies, and then quarrel began. Interestingly, a thread alike this one called Ladies, what is a “man” also existed in this forum. And it seems like a coincidence that there are also 53 replies, but it was neither closed, nor there were any aggressive words. I won’t say it is because women users are more moderate, but I will say that the admins did the right thing by closing the thread that contains words that are considered “obscene, vulgar, sexually-oriented” by certain group of people. Besides, there was this member named “tuna” who was very active in the debate, almost like a rogue user to me, not because he is actually “violating the community’s rules or spirit”, but because he is acting in a overaggressive way.
#3. For the third example, I’m sure it is not a post violating any of the official rules, neither it is offensive to anyone. The author posted a same poem twice in the forum, and asked the admin to remove one of it to avoid clutter. This seems like a typical technical mistake that anyone could made when posting, and it could be handled more effectively when the author can reported the mistake by him/herself. Unfortunately, the extra post was not removed or closed by the admin, maybe because the author just left that “ask for delete” message in the post and the admin didn’t see it at all. Although this is a simpler case comparing to others, I’m surprised that it wasn’t handled well. However, if the author can directly report to or request from the admin by mail or on-site message, there might be better results. Besides, when I saw a poem posted, it just reminds me of that caricature of an Artiste with a pink flower, who is fond of posting a poem. Although our poem here was not posted “in the midst of battle”, I’m still not sure if it is appropriate for the INFP Forum because it seems to have little relation with the forum, even the author is a INFP. Also, I will consider this a self-aware behavior since the author was trying to get some kind of emotional social support from the forum. Accordingly, the member’s site participation was increased, but the problem is there weren’t many replies. So does it mean other members are not interested at a topic like this? Should they report a post like this if they think it’s not something they expected from a forum? Maybe yes, let’s also have peer oversight here and leave the admins to decide. (To me, the answer is better move it to another forum)
Five “Unwritten Rules”
First of all, I think the most obvious unwritten rule is that any message that is not related to the topic of being an INFP personality will be inappropriate for the INFP forum, and this rule is applicable to the ENTP Forum, ISFJ Forum, or ESFP Forum as well.
Second, the admins will tend to move or close threads discussing technical problems, even if it is about this forum. There was this case when a member was asking if there is a chat room for the INFPs, and after the admin posted his reply, the thread was closed.
Third, if a flame war was started, a big chance the thread would be closed.
Then, I guess members should mentioned it if anything they post is is transferred from another forum or anything that has been published elsewhere.
At last, even not written, this rule will be important in both offline and online environments: one should always act polite, and show respect to others when in a community.
In general, I have to say there aren’t many post REALLY violating the official rules by posting any information that is “obscene, vulgar, sexually-oriented, hateful, threatening, or otherwise violative of any laws” in the INFP Forum. Can we attribute this to the fact that INFPs are peaceful people and the atmosphere of this forum is warm and supportive? Maybe. Anyhow, the majority of the posts that should be removed or moved is just because they are inappropriate for this forum but will suit another forum in PersonalityCafe by far.
Reference:
Cosley, Dan, Dan Frankowski, Sara Kiesler, Loren Terveen, John Riedl (2005). How Oversight Improves Member-Maintained Communities. CHI 2005, April 2-7 2005, Portland, Oregon.
Kollock, Peter and Marc Smith (1994). Managing the Virtual Commons: Cooperation and Conflict in Computer Communities. In: Susan Herring (ed.), Computer-Mediated Communication: Linguistic, Social, and Cross-Cultural Perspectives. Amsterdam: John Benjamins. 109-128. http://www.sscnet.ucla.edu/soc/csoc/papers/virtcomm/Virtcomm.htm
Gazan, Rich (2009). When Online Communities Become Self-Aware. Proceedings of the 42nd Hawaii International Conference on System Sciences, Waikoloa, HI, 5-8 January 2009.
Gazan, Rich (2007). Understanding the Rogue User. In: Diane Nahl and Dania Bilal, eds. Information & Emotion: The Emergent Affective Paradigm in Information Behavior Research and Theory. Medford, New Jersey: Information Today, 177-185.
Reed, Mike (no date). Flame Warriors. http://redwing.hutman.net/~mreed/index.htm